3 Things You Must Tell Yourself Today and Every Day

3 Things You Must Tell Yourself Today and Every Day Article by Daniel MilsteinAs the sole architect of your destiny, you need to make sure youre utilizing one of your greatest tools your own voice. That hausintern voice will help you formulate a plan and drown out the external voices of critics and naysayers. Your voice holds the power to boost your confidence and help you both navigate and learn from setbacks when they occur.Be very honest with yourself. Is your own voice joining the negative chorus of doubters? If the answer is yes, youll need to reprogram your thought process by telling yourself these three things today and every day for the rest of your life.1. Do It NowProcrastination is like quicksand. Left unchecked, it will pull you into a quagmire of crippling indecision. Youll make excuse after excuse, eventually foreclosing on your own dream. If youre continually telling yourself its okay to do nothing, then nothing will be what you achie ve.Instead, allow your inner voice to motivate you from morning until night. Fiercely commit to your dream with a sense of urgency. Remember, the difference between could and did lies in planning and action. Become your own greatest coach and advocate for change. Dont take no for an answer, especially from yourself.2. I Deserve ThisWhenever I meet someone who has allowed their dream to derail, or who appears to be passing up opportunities for personal growth or improvement, I always ask why they dont deserve their absolute best.If youre among the folks who settle for anything less than the success you dream about, you must get out of your own way by escaping your dangerous comfort zone. Whether your dream is pursuing a career change youve always wanted or finishing your degree, begin by reminding yourself that you deserve a brighter future. Then, invest in yourself by giving your all. Never cut corners on whats most important your happiness.3. I Know I CanFear of failure, plus the a ttendant inability to reclaim your forward momentum after a setback, is one of the greatest obstacles to success. However, this obstacle can often be effectively addressed by empowering your inner voice.We all have fears, but if we habitually make fear-based decisions, well never reach our full potential. If we allow fear to paralyze our progress, well create blueprints for mediocrity and miss the priceless lessons only trial and error can reveal. Make sure your self-talk is stronger than your fear.I understand overcoming fear is not an overnight process. It might require that you take advantage of additional resources at your disposal, such as individual therapy. I know that it can be extremely uncomfortable to walk out onto your personal ledge, but the feeling of freedom is incomparable, and I assure you the view will be spectacular.As I look back at the journey Ive traveled to success, I can attest to the power of my own self-talk. There have been fears and setbacks to be sure, b ut I resolved the first time I met the wake-up call of ground-shaking disappointment to never consider myself a failure. I win or I learn. There are times when the road will be steep, challenging and tiring. It is during those especially trying days that you must be able to rely upon your inner voice to drive you on. It will mean the difference between giving up and persevering. The only time you run out of chances is when you stop taking them.Start listening to your voice today. What are you saying? Do you believe you can succeed? Its true that whether you think you can or whether you think you cant, youre right. When you do find yourself achieving success, make sure your self-talk remains positive and motivating. You dont want to become complacent. Success is never owned. It is rented, and the rent is due every day.A version of this article originally appeared on SUCCESS.com.Daniel Milstein is the CEO and founder of the Gold Star Family of Companies, operating in more than 40 offi ces worldwide and specializing in financial services, sports management, publishing, and film production. Under Dans visionary leadership, Gold Star has been named among Inc. magazines 500 Fastest Growing Companies in America. He is a best-selling author and shares his other strategies for success in his new book, Rule 1 Dont Be 2 You Get What You Work For, leid What You Wish For. Learn more at DanMilstein.com.